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  • I think then it would be a good question to ask why families with 1 or 2 kids why they don’t have more.

    I’d say the main reasons would be:

    1. Money: Even the most child friendly countries only cover a fraction of the cost of raising a child. As far as I’m aware, they might cover daycare, but that still leaves a ton of chores. And again, the standard might be you want to have a room per child, plus a guest room.
    2. Opportunity Cost: Taking leave will pause your career. Taking two years off in your 20s can really delay career growth, again leading to money issues down the line.
    3. Higher standards for marriage and stability: This might not be directly related to money, but maybe we can blame capitalism ruining everything including dating apps.

    So governments might be able to move the needle a bit with these families by providing extra support.


  • The idea that people felt they have “comfortable income” to have 5 kids while working 6 days a week at a coal mine and living in a one bedroom apartment but can’t have kids today because they can’t put each one in separate room is just silly.

    Is it though? The standards are much higher now and there’s a lot more effort put into raising each child. That’s literally a standard people have now.

    A lot of people want to form a family. They want to have a kid or two.

    Isn’t this my original point? I didn’t say everyone wanted to have an entire litter. There are plenty of people who want to have a family without sacrificing opportunity.