You probably need to try to figure it out. I quit porn cold turkey as that was the only way I coulddo it. I have tend to become addicted to caffeine and candy (sugar) if I’m not careful, so I’ve quite those several times. Tried both cold turkey and gradually for those and found that reducing fast and controlled work for those. So going from 5 cups of coffee a day to 2 a day for a week, to maximum one a day for a week to 2-3 cups a week.
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Privacy@lemmy.ml•Why does Signal want a phone number to register if it's supposedly privacy first?English
4·8 months agoYou can use Obtainium and get it straight from Github.
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Technology@beehaw.org•The inarguable case for banning social media for teensEnglish
1·9 months agoIt’s wild how easy it is to get in contact with small scale drug sellers on Snapchat. It’s easier and more convenient to buy LSD off of Snapchat than buying alcohol at the alcohol store in many medium and large cities, even as an adult. There’s lots of sellers to chose from, no verification of anything, open 24/7, convenient location, some even do home delivery. And they usually have lots of other stuff you probably want as well.
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Technology@lemmy.world•[Gamers Nexus] Death of affordable computing | Tariffs impact and investigationEnglish
1·9 months agoI’m almost exclusively using tech from before the pandemic (desktop from 2019 being the oldest) and it’s such a blessing not having the time to keep up with new games. I’m convinced I won’t need more powerful computers before 2030.
I was dumb enough to get a new Samsung phone last time I needed a phone so the battery will likely be toast long before that, but in terms of power my old Samsung S9 (2018) is still plenty.
It’s wild to me that gamers are still expected to upgrade their rig every other year or even sooner.
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World News@lemmy.world•Trump says 'major tariff' coming soon on foreign pharmaceuticalsEnglish
26·9 months agoI just got out of the stock market recently to get myself a bigger apartment. Felt really insecure about the decision until now (budgeting is tight). Feel for everyone that have their savings in this dumpster fire.
That’s how the world works unfortunately, someone has to pay for it
I’m so glad I made the choice to move away from Gmail and Google search a few years ago.
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World News@lemmy.world•Danish Foreign Minister video in reaction to JD Vance visit to Greenland and apparent lack of knowledge about the agreement between USA and Denmark/GreenlandEnglish
302·9 months agoCan we just start to state the obvious? They want the minerals on Greenland for tech “adventures” so they don’t have to rely on China.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why is a two-party system considered democratic?English
2·10 months agoIt makes a ton of difference actually. I can speak for Norway, currently we have 9* parties in Parliament, 3 on the left, 3 on the right and 3 in the middle that could align themselves with either side, and they do flip from time to time.
If the coalitions formed beforehand we would very likely put the Communist Party in with the left, but Labour actually prefers to work with the Conservatives (their main rival) over the Communists most of the time.
More parties also gives way more nuanced choices, we have 3 parties that have environment and climate change as a top priority, one on the left, one on the right and one in the middle meaning that if climate change is your biggest concern we actually have real alternatives. To continue on the climate rail; the power realtion between the Liberal Party (right/green) and the Progress Party (hard right) will matter a lot if the Conservative party get form a government after the elections.
We see a lot of deals going across the traditional left/right line which makes the political process and campaigning a lot less toxic, and if some big issue is not raised by the big players some a smaller party can campaign on that or we can even start new parties.
*There’s also a non-party representative that in essence got elected to save a local hospital. Kinda wild that the locals got so pissed that enough of them “threw away” there votes to get her elected on a single issue.
That said, there are obviously problems with too many parties, but I think around 6-10 is probably good.
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Memes@lemmy.ml•Deposits should be held by the city. The landlord should be forced to prove they deserve it in a court of law.English
23·10 months agoEither the landlord or a split between the parties
The slower pace of content is a huge plus to me.
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Technology@beehaw.org•The Tesla protests are getting bigger — and rowdierEnglish
18·10 months agoIt’s still wild to me how Elon and Tesla is the face of the Empire considering their standings just 5 years ago

You need to make it fun and engaging for them. That is what the far right is doining. You and I might find it reprehensible, but they het som much traction bu having fun and giving young men a purpose and the feeling that they are doing something to netter themselves and their commuity.
How you go about that I dont know. In my local area we are focusing on having fun partiets and going out together as a group instead of just being political nerds in our own little grottos. Som far it seems to be working.
Tl;dr: Have fun visibly and invite them to join you. It takes forever, but at least you have fun while doing it.