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  • Yes, OP, your are rich. Not super rich, but clearly in upper class.

    “Say you own 2 houses”. I’m in top 10% revenue in my country and I don’t even finished to pay for my 1st one. And I’m now regularly doing thing that I watched on TV as a kid thinking “Whoa, I wish I could do this ! but only rich people can :(…”




  • Hi,

    I think you may have a look to @BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today comment in this thread as he depict very well the choice you currently face.

    You may also ask yourself how much important is your job for you. Some people don’t really care about their job. They see it just as a way to have money and enjoy their life through leisure activities, friends, family. They can do anything as long as it pay. Some people (like me) really need to enjoy their job. I need technical challenge and I couldn’t work in finance, politic, management, administrative, etc… even with better pay. So, do you think you can handle working on a field that’s just “meh…” and enjoy you life outside your job. Or do you think job is really an important part of your life.

    Regarding your parents, they will be proud of you whatever you do as long as you are happy. So, don’t try to make THEM happy. Try to make YOU happy. And, you are not stuck in a field for you whole life. You can do a job that pay well at the beginning, and then reorient to a lower paid, but more interesting job. Reorientation is not easy, but it’s doable. Lot of people work 10 year in a stressed well paid field, to switch to raising goats in the wild when they turn 35/40yo.

    Life is not a sprint. It’s a marathon. Hope this help.















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    4 months ago

    Stop overthinking. Some people just don’t like physical contact. On the other hand, some people (like you maybe ?) really need contact in their social interaction. Diversity is not only about being gay or black 🤪

    Instead of handshake, maybe try a bump next time ? It’s less intrusive for her, and you still have the same kind of “validation” feeling than with handshake.